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Sun, 26 May 2013 01:58:38 -0400

White / modern blog, following back similar!

cat falls asleep in water. [via][video]

Sun, 26 May 2013 01:54:58 -0400

cat falls asleep in water. [via][video]

Photo

Sat, 25 May 2013 22:55:01 -0400

sharp-ish: alexkisu: that cat wears eyeliner better than...

Sat, 25 May 2013 18:02:36 -0400

sharp-ish:

alexkisu:

that cat wears eyeliner better than me

that cat is more attractive than me in general

im-not-even-sorry13: Welcome to Tumblr, hope you enjoy your...

Sat, 25 May 2013 18:01:55 -0400

im-not-even-sorry13:

Welcome to Tumblr, hope you enjoy your stay.

221cbakerstreet: kittening: a male celebrity can literally beat his girlfriend half to death and...

Sat, 25 May 2013 17:25:33 -0400

221cbakerstreet:

kittening:

a male celebrity can literally beat his girlfriend half to death and still enjoy a successful career with millions of adoring fans

a female celebrity can gain a few pounds and she’s shunned, mocked, and ridiculed by thousands of people over many different mediums

do you see the problem with this

a female celebrity JUMPS INTO THE OCEAN TO RESCUE HER CHILD AND NANNY

and is mocked and ridiculed for a wardrobe malfunction

caught: HOLY FUCKINF SHIT. Please I want one

Sat, 25 May 2013 17:23:30 -0400

caught:

HOLY FUCKINF SHIT. Please I want one

iraffiruse: Frozach Submitted

Sat, 25 May 2013 17:15:59 -0400

iraffiruse:

Frozach Submitted

sereneities: someoneisstrugglingtobefree: eatmekissmefuckme: T...

Sat, 25 May 2013 17:06:33 -0400

sereneities:

someoneisstrugglingtobefree:

eatmekissmefuckme:

THIS.

This should be on every billboard across the world until people truly understand it’s meaning and everyone accepts everyone else as equals

i love this… | i check out all my new followers, and leave messages too ♡ have a good day/night ♡

fuckyeahfeminists: 1440p: beinglazyfortherevolution: gadaboutg...

Sat, 25 May 2013 16:56:21 -0400

fuckyeahfeminists:

1440p:

beinglazyfortherevolution:

gadaboutgreen:

sandandglass:

Wayne Allyn Root - seriously, look his face in the last gif.

This makes me so sick.

these entitled, privileged bastards.

he’s one evil looking fucker

Viewing this has made me so angry. I think I’m actually going to stop procrastinating on Tumblr.

pretzeljesus: a single continuous line drawin i did on the...

Sat, 25 May 2013 16:11:56 -0400

pretzeljesus:

a single continuous line drawin i did on the train home tonight

photogenicfelines: (Andrey Gorlachev)

Sat, 25 May 2013 16:06:06 -0400

photogenicfelines:

(Andrey Gorlachev)

Somebody should start a blog about potential movie trigger warnings

Sat, 25 May 2013 16:03:03 -0400

fuckyeahfeminists:

callingoutbigotry:

gabbiegabstoomuch:

That reviews movies in a way that can help trauma victims navigate which movies they can watch without anxiety.

Like if there’s a domestic violence scene or casual rape jokes or dehumanizing racist comments. Etc. etc. Stuff that won’t be mentioned in the reviews.

It can take requests and submissions and what not.

I might start the blog, actually. I think it might be a good resource.

Someone plz make this blog

word.

noellelonghaul: This was a map I made a to keep track of us....

Sat, 25 May 2013 03:38:05 -0400

noellelonghaul:

This was a map I made a to keep track of us. The pockets all hold yarn, a single color for each person they are embroidered with, which will trace out their travels, and the geometry formed by it will be used to create sigils. Unfortunately, I am a hasty person, so I have not kept up with the travels (the names of many of the people that have their pockets embroidered into the sea have been changed). I hope to begin doing this again soon.

bambela: dark-shade: marydoyouwannasmoke: r-o-s-e-p-e-t-a-l-s:...

Sat, 25 May 2013 01:18:40 -0400

bambela:

dark-shade:

marydoyouwannasmoke:

r-o-s-e-p-e-t-a-l-s:

this looks way to perfect on my blog

and its transparent

This is the most calming gif I have ever seen

THIS LOOKS SO SICK ON MY BLOG

Q’d at school

milakuntits: wvnderbar: that murder victim was totally asking for it, walking around with their...

Sat, 25 May 2013 00:59:31 -0400

milakuntits:

wvnderbar:

that murder victim was totally asking for it, walking around with their vital organs all vulnerable

#that’s what they get for going out in public without a suit of armor

people-should-all-be-onions: mydarlingangelgabriel: Snape, Snape, Severus Snape, DUMBLEDORE #why...

Fri, 24 May 2013 21:37:03 -0400

people-should-all-be-onions:

mydarlingangelgabriel:

Snape, ^{Snape, _{Severus Snape, ^DUMBLEDORE}}

#why do we all know exactly what is happening in this post

cis-siberianorchestra: Today I saw a Buddhist monk in his robes cracking himself up taking selfies...

Fri, 24 May 2013 21:21:27 -0400

cis-siberianorchestra:

Today I saw a Buddhist monk in his robes cracking himself up taking selfies with a cardboard cut out of the Pope. I’ve seen world peace, and it thinks it’s hilarious.

The Problem with 'Boys Will Be Boys'

Fri, 24 May 2013 12:25:23 -0400

The Problem with 'Boys Will Be Boys':

gettingahealthybody:

For months, every morning when my daughter was in preschool, I watched her construct an elaborate castle out of blocks, colorful plastic discs, bits of rope, ribbons and feathers, only to have the same little boy gleefully destroy it within seconds of its completion.

No matter how many times he did it, his parents never swooped in BEFORE the morning’s live 3-D reenactment of “Invasion of AstroMonster.” This is what they’d say repeatedly:

“You know! Boys will be boys!”

“He’s just going through a phase!”

“He’s such a boy! He LOVES destroying things!”

“Oh my god! Girls and boys are SO different!”

“He. Just. Can’t. Help himself!”

I tried to teach my daughter how to stop this from happening. She asked him politely not to do it. We talked about some things she might do. She moved where she built. She stood in his way. She built a stronger foundation to the castle, so that, if he did get to it, she wouldn’t have to rebuild the whole thing. In the meantime, I imagine his parents thinking, “What red-blooded boy wouldn’t knock it down?”

She built a beautiful, glittery castle in a public space.

It was so tempting.

He just couldn’t control himself and, being a boy, had violent inclinations.

She had to keep her building safe.

Her consent didn’t matter. Besides, it’s not like she made a big fuss when he knocked it down. It wasn’t a “legitimate” knocking over if she didn’t throw a tantrum.

His desire — for power, destruction, control, whatever- - was understandable.

Maybe she “shouldn’t have gone to preschool” at all. OR, better if she just kept her building activities to home.

I know it’s a lurid metaphor, but I taught my daughter the preschool block precursor of don’t “get raped” and this child, Boy #1, did not learn the preschool equivalent of “don’t rape.”

Not once did his parents talk to him about invading another person’s space and claiming for his own purposes something that was not his to claim. Respect for her and her work and words was not something he was learning. How much of the boy’s behavior in coming years would be excused in these ways, be calibrated to meet these expectations and enforce the “rules” his parents kept repeating?

There was another boy who, similarly, decided to knock down her castle one day. When he did it his mother took him in hand, explained to him that it was not his to destroy, asked him how he thought my daughter felt after working so hard on her building and walked over with him so he could apologize. That probably wasn’t much fun for him, but he did not do it again.

There was a third child. He was really smart. He asked if he could knock her building down. She, beneficent ruler of all pre-circle-time castle construction, said yes… but only after she was done building it and said it was OK. They worked out a plan together and eventually he started building things with her and they would both knock the thing down with unadulterated joy. You can’t make this stuff up.

Take each of these three boys and consider what he might do when he’s older, say, at college, drunk at a party, mad at an ex-girlfriend who rebuffs him and uses words that she expects will be meaningful and respected, “No, I don’t want to. Stop. Leave.”

The “overarching attitudinal characteristic” of abusive men is entitlement

This is so brilliant. We learn things from socialization process. What our parents, friends and peers do, media and all. I think perhaps rape is because parents think boys will be boys, they bully, fight and destroy things, it’s their characteristics so they don’t bother to stop them. But it manifests in them, knowing or unknowingly, they will just think, because I’m a boy and boys tend to do these, so it doesn’t matter even if the girl hates it, says no, because I’m a boy.

Just reblog this, this message is really powerful. For parents and future parents.

And here we have a fantastic example of someone spectacularly missing the point. I'm Claire and was the one who posted this...still can't believe that someone's reaction to this parody article was 'He's not a real Christian...'

Fri, 24 May 2013 12:20:23 -0400

thatqueerchick:

thatqueerchick:

Reblogging my own post. Ah well.

Dragonborn

White / modern blog, following back similar!

cat falls asleep in water. [via][video]

Photo

sharp-ish: alexkisu: that cat wears eyeliner better than...

im-not-even-sorry13: Welcome to Tumblr, hope you enjoy your...

221cbakerstreet: kittening: a male celebrity can literally beat his girlfriend half to death and...

caught: HOLY FUCKINF SHIT. Please I want one

iraffiruse: Frozach Submitted

sereneities: someoneisstrugglingtobefree: eatmekissmefuckme: T...

fuckyeahfeminists: 1440p: beinglazyfortherevolution: gadaboutg...

pretzeljesus: a single continuous line drawin i did on the...

photogenicfelines: (Andrey Gorlachev)

Somebody should start a blog about potential movie trigger warnings

noellelonghaul: This was a map I made a to keep track of us....

bambela: dark-shade: marydoyouwannasmoke: r-o-s-e-p-e-t-a-l-s:...

milakuntits: wvnderbar: that murder victim was totally asking for it, walking around with their...

people-should-all-be-onions: mydarlingangelgabriel: Snape, Snape, Severus Snape, DUMBLEDORE #why...

cis-siberianorchestra: Today I saw a Buddhist monk in his robes cracking himself up taking selfies...

The Problem with 'Boys Will Be Boys'

And here we have a fantastic example of someone spectacularly missing the point. I'm Claire and was the one who posted this...still can't believe that someone's reaction to this *parody* article was 'He's not a real Christian...'

And here we have a fantastic example of someone spectacularly missing the point. I'm Claire and was the one who posted this...still can't believe that someone's reaction to this parody article was 'He's not a real Christian...'